Dogs have long been known as man’s best friend, and their intelligence and empathy often astonish us. From service dogs helping children with disabilities to police dogs on life-saving missions, their behavior is shaped by their environment—and, more importantly, by the behavior of their human companions. But what exactly drives dog behavior, and how can understanding this help improve our relationship with our furry friends?
Where Behavior Comes From
Dog behavior, like human behavior, stems from belief. It’s the core idea that past experiences form a belief that influences future actions. For instance, if a dog has been abused by someone wearing glasses, it might develop an aversion to all people with glasses. The behavior, whether aggression or avoidance, isn’t random—it’s a defense mechanism rooted in a traumatic experience. The same principle applies to humans, who may react defensively in situations that resemble past traumas.
The way we interact with our dogs has a profound effect on their behavior. Dogs are highly sensitive to human emotions and body language, with studies showing they can interpret body language correctly about 90% of the time. They can sense when you’re angry, anxious, or happy and will often mirror those emotions. That’s why it’s essential to maintain calm, assertive energy around dogs. They look to their humans for cues on how to feel and act.
Belief Shapes Behavior
What we believe to be true drives how we act, and the same applies to dogs. If you believe your dog is "stubborn" or "naughty," you may approach training with frustration or impatience, which your dog will pick up on. On the other hand, if you approach your dog with empathy, understanding that their "bad" behavior might be a reaction to something in their environment (like your own stress or an unfamiliar situation), you’re more likely to guide them to better behavior.
Dogs, like humans, form beliefs based on their experiences. For instance, a dog that’s been mistreated by a person with a certain appearance may react aggressively to others who resemble that person. Similarly, just as humans carry emotional baggage from traumatic events, dogs do too. They might avoid certain situations or people because of past experiences.
Behavior is a Two-Way Street
As much as we influence our dog’s behavior, they influence ours too. Dogs can act as emotional barometers, picking up on stress, frustration, or happiness. You may notice that your dog comes over and lays their head on your lap when you’re upset. They’re trying to comfort you, much like a human friend would.
However, many people don’t realize this and instead misinterpret their dog’s behavior as bothersome or inappropriate. The next time your dog seems overly attentive during your stressful moments, consider that they’re responding to your emotions and trying to help. Be mindful of how your behavior may be affecting them and work towards creating a calm and supportive environment that benefits both you and your dog.
Conclusion: Belief and Emotion in Dog Training
In essence, dogs and humans are more alike than we think when it comes to behavior. Both are driven by beliefs formed through experiences, and both respond to the emotions around them. Understanding how your behavior influences your dog can lead to better communication and a more harmonious relationship. So the next time your dog acts out, don’t just ask, “What’s wrong with my dog?”—ask, “How can I help them feel safer and more secure?”